Guide to Masturbation for Married Women

Many perceive masturbation as something that only single people do, but self-love sessions are perfectly acceptable for married women to practice. Masturbation comes with self-discovery and promotes confidence in your body which can improve your intimacy with your partner or husband.

Masturbation for married women has many benefits, but despite modern times, self-love sessions are still considered taboo. Married women often feel uncomfortable talking about it with their spouses.

It’s time to stop the misconception and stigma about married women masturbating and instead help them achieve their big O. 

Written by Karen Dinkin

The Truth About Masturbation and Marriage

Married women can masturbate and find pleasure with their fingers while receiving satisfaction from their husbands. There is nothing wrong if you’re doubly gratified. Masturbation and sexual intercourse don’t have to be a choice where you must select one exclusively. They can both be part of a couple’s healthy sex life.

You can even include masturbation in your sexual repertoire as a couple like many wedded people even if only a few openly talk about and admit to it.

Then, there are those who think that a married woman who masturbates does so because her husband is failing to satisfy her sexually. This is a dangerous idea that can lead to feelings of sexual insecurities and inadequacies.

More importantly, it isn’t always the case. Many women who enjoy pleasuring themselves are madly in love and attracted to their spouses. So, this is one of the biggest misconceptions about masturbation and marriage.

For others, couple masturbation is part of foreplay and can help with the buildup before sexual intercourse between husband and wife. When married women have open and trusting communication with their husbands, masturbation can become a shared activity or a solo act. This self-love can heighten the sensations and turn you on before you enjoy each other intimately.

Benefits of Women Masturbating When Married

For married women, masturbation has perks aside from having that unforgettable release. Here are some reasons why women who are married should be more open to the prospect of self-pleasuring.

 Masturbating can improve your sex life.

 Masturbating solo or doing it with your spouse can heighten your sense of awareness regarding your sexual wellness and body. Not to mention that the visual it offers is rather exciting.

Your husband should know your pleasure points, but so should you. It is your body, after all. Knowing what turns you on and what makes you shiver and moan can help you guide your husband to the right spots and how you want to be touched. In return, your capacity to provide and receive pleasure can make you feel empowered.

 As a couple, you have your individual needs and although guessing can be fun, it can often lead to frustration. So, once you have intimately discovered your pleasure spots, tell your husband about them and how you want things done. Husbands appreciate cues from their wives, and it can have a positive impact on your libidos.

Masturbation can strengthen relationships.

Even married women who have been with their spouses for most of their lives can experience difficulties communicating with their husbands — especially when it comes to matters between the sheets.

Masturbating can help you be more knowledgeable and comfortable about your body. By masturbating regularly, you’ll feel more empowered telling your husband what you like and what turns you on. You can then share these insights with your husband who can help you achieve a satisfying vaginal orgasm.

When married women talk about their bodies and what makes them moan, the level of trust in their partners increases. The sexual confidence and bond they share can thus be strengthened with masturbation.

 Masturbation can make you sexually creative.

Married women are not always with their better halves. There are husbands who are deployed, working overseas, and physically incapacitated. Of course, women still have needs.

Masturbation allows married women to meet those needs without risking their marriage. Yes, fingers are always magical, but like men and their male masturbation toys (like the ace stroker), there are also sex toys for women.

Admittedly, they can be a little intimidating to use at first, but these products are your BFFs. Self-love with a vibrator or a clitoral suction sex toy — perhaps a vibrating dildo — can enhance your masturbation sessions. If your husband is physically present and is open to some creative and naughty fun, you can use these sex toys to make your coupling more spontaneous, intimate, and satisfying.

Self-love Through Masturbation Shouldn’t Stop When You Get Married

Being married doesn't mean that your pleasure is entirely dependent on your spouse. While it’s easy to fall into a sexual routine with your husband, you can still keep things as exciting, new, and orgasmic as the first few times you had sex.

As you become more comfortable with your need for physical pleasure and its fulfillment, masturbation can help you explore your body and take your sexual connection with your husband further.

Consider this thrusting dildo for couples with Bluetooth app control, use for long distance fun with your partner!